Something In The Rain

As the lockdown took over our lives, people started drifting from each other. But in all that chaos of survival, I ended up being hooked to my phone watching Korean dramas with English subtitles on Netflix. While it all started with Crash Landing On You (more on it later sometime), I started watching more and more K-dramas or let's say floating in the Korean wave.  It came to a point that I was even quoted in a story for Zenger News. So I decided to write down about shows which I recommend and why. I hope you have fun and please do send me your recommendations too. 

"Sometimes it's hard to be a woman, 

Giving all your love to just one man,

You'll have the bad times,

and he'll have the good times, 

Doin' things that you don't understand"

This song is one of the main tracks of the drama series Something In The Rain. It is a slow soothing track and everytime this plays in the background, you will feel a little warmer, a little better. The song by Carla Bruni is an ode to a woman. 

This series has been written  by Kim Eun and directed by An Pan-Seek. Now I have tried very hard to find more information about Kim Eun, infact if any reader can find me more information about her I would love to interview her someday.  The drama is based on a 35- year old lady (played by Son Ye-Jin)  who works as a barista and ends up dating a much younger (played by Jung Hae-In) who works as a game designer. The story revolves around the actress and her work colleagues where the women face work place harassment by senior men in the organisation and how she slowly stands up to it, her pursuit to find love for herself so much so that she first holds his hand in a bar when she realises another woman is trying to hit on her love interest, and the progression from being someone timid (her previous relationship) to be able to hold her ground, find her own voice and a journey where her mother continuously opposes her relationship and how she moves out of her home to find her own new life. While none of the Korean shows ever really end up in a heart break and I would also be heart broken if the hero didn't come back, right? 

So in all of this the hero ends up in the last scene with an umbrella , the umbrella has a lot of connotations in the show. 

This show actually breaks many taboos that is prevalent in the Korean society, but closer home all these instances sound way too common for us too. There have been so many times when I have heard people dissenting relationships where the woman is older than the man, they are even called cougar.  The common you and me, have lived around these taboos and it was refreshing to see someone who is over 30 years, independent , sticks to her job, takes one battle at a time and stands her ground. Her transformation is equally beautiful and the music notes string to your hearts. I am totally spell bound by the writer's thought process, the way she conceived the show and prioritises some of the most prevalent taboos which needs wider discussion around us. It is a treat to watch this show. And ofcourse, I am absolutely crushing on Hae-In these days.      

Sometimes the series feels a little too slow, especially the point where her mother disapproves the relationship and it stretches for far too long, you can always skip a little. It is a show that takes up a little time, but there is a direction where it is headed, all is not lost in the process. 

I hope you like this show too and I hope to be back with another show recommendation next week!